90% of conflict stems from misunderstanding, so how do we, as God's children, practice perspective in a Biblical way? We speak and be honest, we lean in and listen, and then we set our mind on things above. Those who learn to look through the lens of God at their life circumstances will find a power and strength they've never known. As Charles Surgeon so once wisely said, "Christian, remember the goodness of God in the frost of adversity."